About Breakuposity
I started a relationship help/advice blog, and forum back in 2008 and ran it until 2018…
Damn Time Really Does Fly!
If you’re interested, you can probably still find remnants of them on the website Way Back Machine.
Just search for http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com – my old blog.
And http://www.howtokicklovesass.com – my old forum.
Why did I start these two sites?
I was trying to make money as an affiliate marketer and I was promoting a book called The Magic of Making Up.
I was making sales, and some badly needed money, but all my customers were always asking for help.
It seems the “guru” who was selling this book and offering “support” was just full-of-shit.
So, I stepped up and started trying to help.
What a nightmare that turned out to be.
*Now you know why I don’t have a comment section on this site.
People were posting comments all over my blog and I was going crazy trying to keep up and answer all of them.
I was about to give up when my “Inner BadAss” kicked in and said “Don’t give up, get smart”.
My forum was born, and later the system.
After around 10 years, and a lot of bullshit, I stopped and deleted it all.
I deleted everything because I didn’t want to be tempted to revive that totally dead horse.
It was time to stop beating a dead horse and move on.
Well, I’m back.
I have a new blog and forum, and they will work much better than my first attempt because I know what I am doing this time around.
After all, there is no substitute for experience.
Although as rough as things were with my shitty web design skills and managing to pick the wrong forum software to use.
I did help quite a few people.
So, what happened?
Because I was offering my help for free and, undermining the “relationship gurus” who want to charge you for their help.
I was attacked, constantly with porno backlinks and back then that was a BIG NO-NO in Googles eyes.
That lovely tactic was called Negative SEO, and it unfortunately worked.
My search rankings tanked, and so did my traffic (a.k.a. people who could find my website) even though I had no control over who links to my site.
Now, they (Google and other search engines) don’t really care because they know that a website cannot stop other websites (bad or good) from linking to your site.
The system I set up in my old forum (and in my new forum) depends on getting fresh members in the forum to keep the support system going.
You see, you will be helping yourself and other people who are going through the same thing.
And all it will cost you is time.
I do all the heavy lifting to keep things running and on track.
All I ask in return is that you follow the forum rules and pay it forward by helping others.
I have a lot more to share and maybe I will update this if things start rolling along.
I would love to see this work the way I imagined it would way back when I first started all this.
OK, time to kick love’s ass!