About Breakuposity

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Who is the Head Mofo?

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Hi,

I am the Head Mofo (Scott).

If you break the rules, you will understand the nickname.

I am not a trained medical person. I hold no degrees.

I have done this before and would like to give it another try.

I am not trying to save everyone; that’s impossible.

If I try to help everyone, I will end up helping no one.

But I have helped people.

Because I have limited resources, I need to keep things tight to keep this free.

I will handle this as I see fit, and it may not work for everyone or in every situation.

Will this work for you?

Give it a try and find out.

It’s free.

If you put in the effort, you will get results.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

If you are bored or curious, keep reading to learn more.

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Some History

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Welcome to Breakuposity and the Free Breakup Survival Plan.

This is a one-of-a-kind place because I will not treat you like an ATM.

The site design is basic for a reason; it is easier to read and get the help you want and need.

Hey, that rhymes.

Now, for a little history about your host.

I started a relationship help/advice blog and forum back in 2008 and ran them until 2018…

If you’re interested, you can probably still find remnants of them on the website Wayback Machine.

Just search for blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com – my old blog.

And www.howtokicklovesass.com – my old forum.

Why did I start these two sites?

I was trying to make money as an affiliate marketer by promoting a book called The Magic of Making Up.

I was making sales and some badly needed money, but all my customers were asking for help.

It seemed the “guru” who was selling this book and offering “support” was just full of shit.

So, I stepped up and started helping.

What a nightmare that turned out to be.

*Now you know why I don’t have a comment section on this site*

People were posting comments all over my blog, and I was going crazy trying to keep up and answer them all.

I was about to give up when my “Inner BadAss” kicked in and said, “Don’t give up. Get smart.”

My forum was born, and the system came later.

After around 10 years and a lot of bullshit (both in my life and on the internet), I stopped and deleted it all.

I deleted everything because I didn’t want to be tempted to revive that totally dead horse.

It was time to stop beating a dead horse and move on.

Well, I’m back.

I have a new blog and forum, and they will work much better than my first attempt because I know what I am doing this time around.

After all, there is no substitute for experience.

As rough as things were with my shitty web design skills and my choice of the wrong forum software, I did help quite a few people.

So, what happened?

Because I was offering my help for free and undermining the “relationship gurus” who wanted to charge you for their help, I was attacked with negative SEO, and it worked.

My search rankings tanked, and so did my traffic (a.k.a. people who could find my website).

A website and forum do not work very well without a steady flow of visitors, especially the forum.

The system I set up in my old forum (and in my new one) depends on new members to keep it going.

You see, you will be helping yourself and other people who are going through the same thing.

And it will only take a little of your time.

I do all the heavy lifting to keep things running and on track.

All I ask in return is that you please follow the forum rules and help others when you can.

I have more to share, and I will update this page as things move forward.

I would love to see this work the way I imagined it would when I first started all this.

OK, time to kick love’s ass!